{"id":2877,"date":"2016-06-05T15:33:20","date_gmt":"2016-06-05T19:33:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/?p=2877"},"modified":"2016-06-05T15:33:20","modified_gmt":"2016-06-05T19:33:20","slug":"the-power-of-pitching-a-fit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/2016\/06\/05\/the-power-of-pitching-a-fit\/","title":{"rendered":"The Power of Pitching a Fit"},"content":{"rendered":"

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If you\u2019re anything like me you probably think you\u2019ve got it all together. People come to you and ask your advice, you struggle with not fixing things for everyone anymore and sometimes you actually succeed. You\u2019re a safe place, people can say anything they want to you and it goes nowhere beyond the conversation. Vent away, of course you feel that way, I\u2019m so sorry this is happening, you say to whomever needs to hear it.<\/p>\n

You find yourself saying these things time and time again and then sometimes you wonder where those same people go when they\u2019re feeling fabulous. Not to your house as it turns out. And so it begins that crazy mixture of self-pity, I never ask for anything rant (except that you take two minutes each week to read my tiny little blog), why am I always alone story you tell yourself right before your back starts aching and your hip doesn\u2019t work right and you have a headache every day and your hair is as big as Diana Ross. You see where this is going?<\/p>\n

It happens to all of us at one time or another. When the stuff of life starts manifesting in your body I don\u2019t care how many affirmations you recite, how much praying you do it won\u2019t work until you pitch a fit. The cares and woes of all your people are safe with you, they feel better and you are better for being there but summon up your petulant child and start stamping your feet, crying your eyes out or dancing\/running\/walking it out of your body when you feel it coming on. Howl at the moon, punch the bobo doll, find a way to sweat it out. I\u2019m not kidding it works.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let it fester as if you are everyone\u2019s personal vessel of troubles. Yes, you are a kind hearted soul that somehow finds yourself with a head full of everything that\u2019s happened to your people in the last six months\/years\/decades. Remember it\u2019s not your stuff, get rid of it, the helping is done now let it go.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let the situation worm its way into all of your own things you\u2019ve been putting aside. Because God knows you can make a mountain out of wink when you\u2019re in this state of teary aches and pains and why\u2019s and why nots. Remember you have people too. They would be happy to say what you need to hear if only you tap them on the shoulder, or shoot a text or show up for lunch as it turns out. It\u2019s not your job to take care of everyone else first, it\u2019s your job to take care of you first. If you\u2019re empty for yourself you\u2019re empty for everyone else too.<\/p>\n

Indulge your temper tantrum, with those who\u2019ve seen it before. I am eternally grateful for my besties, the ones who cheer when I pitch a fit\u2026because they know like they know I\u2019ll be fine in a minute. Ok, I\u2019m done now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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