{"id":2853,"date":"2016-05-08T17:02:15","date_gmt":"2016-05-08T21:02:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/?p=2853"},"modified":"2016-05-08T17:02:15","modified_gmt":"2016-05-08T21:02:15","slug":"a-callahans-mom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/2016\/05\/08\/a-callahans-mom\/","title":{"rendered":"A Callahan&#8217;s Mom"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/callahansmom2\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2852 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/CallahansMom2-400x400.jpeg\" alt=\"CallahansMom2\" width=\"400\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/CallahansMom2-400x400.jpeg 400w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/CallahansMom2-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/CallahansMom2-1024x1024.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/05\/CallahansMom2-300x300.jpeg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Today it was all about the hot dog. And beer\u2026birch beer. And a piece of the past that we shared so many years ago as a young family growing up in Bergen County. For Mother\u2019s Day we dined at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.callahanshotdogs.com\/\">Callahan\u2019s Hot Dogs<\/a>. Not brunch, no cooking, no fuss just a hot dog, well not JUST a hot dog it was Callahan\u2019s after all. The snap, the flavor, the birch beer, the music it just all came together like a time capsule broken wide open. It was simple, it was heartwarming, it didn\u2019t include my father but enough trains passed by that we were pretty sure he was on one of them. It\u2019s what she wanted to do for her day.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes you get there. Sometimes a father\u2019s daughter can learn to appreciate her mother because a little dog comes along and makes her into a Gramma. The mistakes aren\u2019t forgotten but they are relabeled into something more palatable, something more relatable.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"584\" height=\"329\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/PF0OLE5GDt4?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>The reliance has become endearing especially when you find yourself saying you did the right thing, out loud. Me: no it wasn\u2019t the IRS calling. Me: yes do call the police to report it. Me: see even they said you did the right thing. Now it counts\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Most of all you admit you don\u2019t know what you\u2019ll be like when you\u2019re approaching 86 years old. You admit you\u2019re glad that you own the dog she loves as if it were a grandchild. You admit there may be more similarities than differences, our feet don\u2019t touch the ground. It\u2019s a start albeit a small one, no pun intended.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"584\" height=\"329\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/46Ydby68p5c?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span><\/p>\n<p>There is gratitude in the passing of time that allowed all things to come to the point where regrets are over taken by small moments. Like receiving the proud sticker that said Callahan\u2019s Mom from the original owner\u2019s grandson who called her Gramma, day complete.<\/p>\n<p>Happy Mother\u2019s Day from a father\u2019s daughter\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today it was all about the hot dog. And beer\u2026birch beer. And a piece of the past that we shared so many years ago as a young family growing up in Bergen County. 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