{"id":2115,"date":"2014-10-19T19:35:07","date_gmt":"2014-10-19T23:35:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/?p=2115"},"modified":"2014-10-19T19:35:07","modified_gmt":"2014-10-19T23:35:07","slug":"lime-and-lime-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/2014\/10\/19\/lime-and-lime-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Lime and Lime Again"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Lime<\/a><\/p>\n

In a full heart there is room for everything, in an empty heart there is room for nothing. Antonio Porchia<\/p>\n

I had the honor of joining several of my oldest and dearest friends in Houston this weekend. We met for the very first time. You\u2019ve heard me say before what a lovely and rare gift that is; meeting an old friend for the very first time. How is it that twenty five women can find themselves together sharing, learning, laughing, exploring, and just plain, well, liming\u2026 Liming is an expression that has its origin in Trinidad & Tobago. It has relaxing at its center but goes further to include rejuvenating, enlightening, connecting and gathering around food and conversation. We attended the LimeLight Sessions<\/a> this weekend and I did indeed lime. These sessions are the brain child and, come to find out, dream come true of Karen Walrond. Human being extraordinaire, story teller, speaker and photographer, creator and curator of the website Chookooloonks.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n

My participation in these sessions came at a turning point. I\u2019ve been following Karen for several years and love the way she makes her way in the world, the way there is a community around her, the way she values her own backyard and the world\u2019s backyard. Yes, I do too. So how does she do it, what is she really like, can I learn from her. The answer is yes. And yes. And yes. Her generosity is unrestrained while taking good care of herself, not an easy thing to do. One of the more frustrating things women struggle with.<\/p>\n

Timing is indeed everything; having just reached that turning point in Ordinary Legacy<\/a>, having just brainstormed a truly frightening and exhilarating idea for where it should go, having just actually put that idea on paper and presented it as a product the invitation to lime in Houston reaches my inbox\u2026In Houston. I haven\u2019t been on a plane in almost a decade. So what? I sign up, I make travel arrangements including flights and hotels and shuttles and lions and tigers and bears and\u00a0I\u2019m a minute from a meltdown and excitement overrides my\u00a0fear. There are gifts and then there are gifts, excitement is truly a gift.<\/p>\n

\"Lime<\/a><\/p>\n

I have been carrying around \u201cthe book\u201d as himself used to call it, since my father died in 2005. It has stuff, ideas, pictures, snippets and quotes. I\u2019ve not been as consistent with it in a journaling sense but it\u2019s been an invaluable tool. Practically the minute I got to Houston it put into action. The room I was in had a big ledge of a window sill, the kind I had in my first apartment in Cliffside Park and I found myself using it as a desk with my coffee close by and a view of the city. Priceless.<\/p>\n

We worked we played we shared. I shared Ordinary Legacy and where I wanted it to go. What is legacy they asked\u2026oh I know like I know this one; legacy is born of living your life the way you want your story told. Extraordinary legacies come from an ordinary life well lived. Yes they said, let me repeat that\u2026Yes, they said. I am blessed to have been able to let my ideas about where I want to go out and have wonderful people say, yes. To have my little love of legacy become part of these sessions fills my heart to overflowing. Tia Walker said; \u201cAffirmations are our mental vitamins, providing the supplementary positive thoughts we need to balance the barrage of negative events and thoughts we experience daily.\u201d Amen Sister.<\/p>\n

\"Lime<\/a><\/p>\n

I learned so much over this weekend, about the women who attended and about myself. I told my story, which I don\u2019t normally do. Thank you Esther, you\u2019re a love and I can\u2019t wait to see you in December for Andrea\u2019s serenade to us. \u00a0I met and grew to love some of the most fascinating and nurturing people I\u2019ve ever met. And they met me, the real me. I sincerely hope that the legacy I\u2019ve left them is the one about the favorite Aunt and not the one about Macy\u2019s window\u2026.I\u2019ll save that for another time.<\/p>\n

\"Lime<\/a><\/p>\n

And then back on the plane. Goodbye Houston, I don\u2019t know that I\u2019ll see you again but I enjoyed your company. Hello New Jersey, my backyard where I know like I know I can make this happen. I thank you Karen for your timing, your wisdom and your ever faithful course of looking for the light.<\/p>\n

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