{"id":2083,"date":"2014-09-07T17:09:04","date_gmt":"2014-09-07T21:09:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/?p=2083"},"modified":"2014-09-07T17:09:04","modified_gmt":"2014-09-07T21:09:04","slug":"let-your-hands-tell-your-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/2014\/09\/07\/let-your-hands-tell-your-story\/","title":{"rendered":"Let Your Hands Tell Your Story"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0972.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2059\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0972-1024x680.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_0972\" width=\"584\" height=\"387\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0972-1024x680.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0972-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0972-451x300.jpg 451w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>From watching him play the other day \u2013 I recognize his hands in the picture, she mused. \u00a0My friend is talking about a street artist we had the pleasure of listening to just recently. I love his story but I don\u2019t really know it. He was a clarinetist; he is a lover of Mozart and jazz. He plays it all on a table of water glasses down near the waterfront in Old Town Alexandria VA. How does one wind up as a street performer, how does one learn to play glasses of water, how do you find yourself in this position but still love what you do?<\/p>\n<p>Elizabeth Gilbert wrote in Eat, Pray, Love; \u201cWe have hands; we can stand on them if we want to. That&#8217;s our privilege. That&#8217;s the joy of a mortal body. And that&#8217;s why God needs us. Because God loves to feel things through our hands.\u201d \u00a0I find the thought of that fascinating and interesting somehow, but I think at the same time I knew it. Going back over some of my images I found many that reflected hands and I instantly knew the circumstances and the feeling that went with each image.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/001.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2084\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/001.jpg\" alt=\"001\" width=\"400\" height=\"573\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/001.jpg 554w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/001-209x300.jpg 209w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you find yourself holding someone\u2019s hand when they need it most it will become part of your story. \u201cOne hand I extend into myself, the other toward others\u201d, said Dejan Stojanovic. There are times they may not even realize you\u2019re holding their hand, like when you teach them about living on their own, surrounding themselves with themselves and enjoying their own company, but you\u2019ve made a difference in their life.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_1028.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2085\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_1028-726x1024.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_1028\" width=\"400\" height=\"564\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_1028-726x1024.jpg 726w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_1028-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_1028.jpg 1355w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This is especially true in the life of a dog. Trust, love, familiarity, your hands can convey all of these things. A dog knows your story better than you do sometimes. Never raise your hand to a dog but always extend it.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_9802-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2067 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_9802-2-300x258.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_9802 (2)\" width=\"300\" height=\"258\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_9802-2-300x258.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_9802-2-1024x882.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_9802-2-348x300.jpg 348w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_9802-2.jpg 1551w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/135.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2075 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/135-289x300.jpg\" alt=\"135\" width=\"289\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/135-289x300.jpg 289w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/135-989x1024.jpg 989w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/135.jpg 1403w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 289px) 100vw, 289px\" \/><\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_5809.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2063 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_5809-300x201.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_5809\" width=\"300\" height=\"201\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_5809-300x201.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_5809-1024x686.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_5809-447x300.jpg 447w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_5809.jpg 1844w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And while you\u2019re extending your hand to someone you love your story and theirs will become one. That wonderful time when you join your lives and as John Geddes so wisely said in A Familiar Rain\u2026\u201c&#8230;we&#8217;ve let go of so many things, but never each other&#8217;s hand &#8230;\u201d\u00a0\u00a0If the unthinkable happens and your lives are no longer joined it may very well be because you let go of each other\u2019s hands, by choice or by circumstance. That too becomes your story.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/2013-8.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2077\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/2013-8-1024x585.jpg\" alt=\"2013 (8)\" width=\"400\" height=\"229\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/2013-8-1024x585.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/2013-8-300x171.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/2013-8-500x285.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/friends04.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2069\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/friends04-1024x667.jpg\" alt=\"friends04\" width=\"400\" height=\"261\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/friends04-1024x667.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/friends04-300x195.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/friends04-460x300.jpg 460w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/friends04.jpg 1888w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You will leave notes.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0056.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2080\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0056-1024x680.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_0056\" width=\"400\" height=\"266\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0056-1024x680.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0056-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0056-451x300.jpg 451w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You will celebrate.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/095.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2074\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/095-879x1024.jpg\" alt=\"095\" width=\"400\" height=\"466\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/095-879x1024.jpg 879w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/095-257x300.jpg 257w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You will create.<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_8494.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2065\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_8494-1024x635.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_8494\" width=\"400\" height=\"248\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_8494-1024x635.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_8494-300x186.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_8494-483x300.jpg 483w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_8494.jpg 1983w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a>\u00a0You will ponder.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/003.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2070\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/003-1024x680.jpg\" alt=\"003\" width=\"400\" height=\"266\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/003-1024x680.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/003-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/003-451x300.jpg 451w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You will lend your hand.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_2043-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2061\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_2043-2-1024x634.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_2043 (2)\" width=\"400\" height=\"248\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_2043-2-1024x634.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_2043-2-300x185.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_2043-2-484x300.jpg 484w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_2043-2.jpg 1388w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You will reassure.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0329.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2081\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0329-1024x635.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_0329\" width=\"400\" height=\"248\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0329-1024x635.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0329-300x186.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0329-483x300.jpg 483w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_0329.jpg 1983w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You will work.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/198.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2076\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/198-1024x680.jpg\" alt=\"198\" width=\"400\" height=\"266\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/198-1024x680.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/198-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/198-451x300.jpg 451w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You will discover.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_3199.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2062\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_3199-1024x708.jpg\" alt=\"DSC_3199\" width=\"400\" height=\"277\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_3199-1024x708.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_3199-300x207.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_3199-433x300.jpg 433w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/DSC_3199.jpg 1983w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>And you will grow old. \u201c&#8230;You won&#8217;t age? I promise you this &#8211; your hands will go shiny and transparent and at the slightest bruise they&#8217;ll bleed&#8230;\u201d \u00a0\u2015 John Geddes.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/035.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-2071\" src=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/035-1024x680.jpg\" alt=\"035\" width=\"584\" height=\"387\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/035-1024x680.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/035-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/035-451x300.jpg 451w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 584px) 100vw, 584px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>But if you\u2019ve lived your life through your hands in a way that God can \u201cfeel things\u201d, your story just might be a beautiful one that people will tell over and over. Like Mozart\u2019s for instance, being told to this day in concert halls <a href=\"http:\/\/youtu.be\/DvkELEBMLV0\">and on street corners<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From watching him play the other day \u2013 I recognize his hands in the picture, she mused. \u00a0My friend is talking about a street artist we had the pleasure of listening to just recently. I love his story but I &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/2014\/09\/07\/let-your-hands-tell-your-story\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[6],"tags":[500,65,501,502,503],"class_list":["post-2083","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-pause-points","tag-hands","tag-legacy","tag-life-stories","tag-mozart","tag-street-performers"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p27hQ5-xB","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2083","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2083"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2083\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2087,"href":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2083\/revisions\/2087"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2083"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2083"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2083"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}