{"id":1310,"date":"2013-02-18T11:00:45","date_gmt":"2013-02-18T16:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/?p=1310"},"modified":"2013-02-18T11:04:39","modified_gmt":"2013-02-18T16:04:39","slug":"one-billion-rising","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.ordinarylegacy.com\/word\/2013\/02\/18\/one-billion-rising\/","title":{"rendered":"One Billion Rising"},"content":{"rendered":"

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ONE IN THREE WOMEN ON THE PLANET WILL BE RAPED OR BEATEN IN HER LIFETIME.*<\/p>\n

ONE BILLION WOMEN VIOLATED IS AN ATROCITY<\/p>\n

ONE BILLION WOMEN DANCING IS A REVOLUTION<\/p>\n

ONE BILLION RISING IS:<\/p>\n

A global strike<\/p>\n

An invitation to dance<\/p>\n

A call to men and women to refuse to participate in the status quo until rape and rape culture ends<\/p>\n

An act of solidarity, demonstrating to women the commonality of their struggles and their power in numbers<\/p>\n

A refusal to accept violence against women and girls as a given<\/p>\n

A new time and a new way of being.*<\/p>\n

*Taken from the One Billion Rising website.<\/p>\n

With the best of intentions I signed up to rise at the event at Palisades Center, sponsored by The Center for Safety and Change formerly the Rockland Family Shelter. \u00a0With the best of intentions I learned the song, familiarized myself with the dance and read what I could about the movement. \u00a0Sometimes I did this with tears in my eyes for the women who live in fear every day. \u00a0I have known abuse I have never known violence.<\/p>\n

The road to hell they say is paved with the best of intentions.<\/p>\n

Instead I found myself sitting in an emergency room with my sister and my mother who had fallen during the night. \u00a0Thankfully there was nothing broken.\u00a0 There was, however, a little congestive heart failure (which is not like being a little pregnant apparently) and a urinary tract infection. \u00a0Turns out this UTI was a lot more potent than the usual strain and had been causing the elderly to experience atypical symptoms like hallucinating and…wait for it…falling.<\/p>\n

Ok hook her up to fluids, antibiotics and oh yes, they are going to admit her. \u00a0Hours go by and more hours go by and even more hours go by, to the tune of fourteen hours to be exact until she gets to a room.<\/p>\n

All this time I’m watching One Billion Rising unfold all over the world. \u00a0Beginning in some of the most dangerous places, women (and men) are dancing to bring awareness to the violence they face every day. In places like India, Jakarta, Indonesia, the Democratic Republic of Congo, Jerusalem, the Sudan, Taiwan, South Africa, Australia, New Zealand, Singapore, throughout Europe and South America, \u00a0and nearly every state in the Union. \u00a0They are all dancing to the same tune, \u201cBreak the Chain\u201d written especially for the event by Tena Clark and Tim Heintz with choreography by the amazing Debbie Allen.<\/p>\n

http:\/\/youtu.be\/fL5N8rSy4CU<\/a><\/p>\n

I am in awe of these women and of the Herculean efforts and the sheer determination of Eve Ensler to pull this off.\u00a0 But then again why would I be, she has successfully waged war on violence against women in this country through her V-Day events and her Vagina Monologues benefit performances over the past fifteen years.<\/p>\n

To say that each of these performances was moving is an understatement. Thankfully the tears brought to my eyes with nearly each performance helped to counteract the severe dry eye from sitting in the ER all day.<\/p>\n

My sister finally went home after her 4am to 4pm shift (she gets the calls from Lifeline- God bless her) so she was pretty much shot. \u00a0She didn’t even have to change back into her pajamas to go to bed as she had bolted out in them.\u00a0 Things got very quiet in the ER after she left and my mother and I had a chance to share the One Billion Rising story and some of the events together on my iPad.\u00a0 We both remember the day we found out our dear Josephine had been shot and killed by her ex-husband back in 1976.\u00a0 So vivid were the memories that she understood not only the importance of the events but the reason I was drawn to this cause.<\/p>\n

One of the more disturbing personal revelations for me is that not many seemed to know about this and no one but Willa responded to my impromptu invitation on Facebook. Thank you Willa, I knew you’d be the one to stand next to me if you could. And of course my sister could have been persuaded, not thrilled about the dancing part but certainly to stand next to me in solidarity. Not many of the nurses in the ER seemed to know about it either. You would think they\u2019ve seen some of the results of violence against women in our own backyard.\u00a0 Sad that this wasn\u2019t on more women\u2019s radar.\u00a0 My mother said it best about me, “you’ve always had your nose in something, ever since you we’re a kid\u201d She has a way of putting things\u2026<\/p>\n

My ride home that night proved that even though my best of intentions were dashed I doubt I’ll be going to hell. I was with them in spirit and in prayer. \u00a0There was so much prayer during the day that when I finally made my way home near to 10pm I wound up going a different way home than I normally would.\u00a0 Not sure why but it became clear to me as I rode up Route 17 and noticed that someone was trying to get into the north bound lanes going SOUTH.\u00a0 There is nothing more disturbingly ODD than looking in your rearview mirror and seeing break lights where there should only be headlights.\u00a0 Had I gone the way I normally do I would have met them head on, literally.<\/p>\n

So the moral of the story is that I\u2019m sure the financial support, and oh yeah got the tee shirt, will have to do for now.\u00a0 I will have the best of intentions again next year and hope that I can truly participate.\u00a0 I hope you’ll check out some of the videos on YouTube. Especially the ones from India, Sudan and the Congo as it took more than practice for these women to dance, it took incredible courage.<\/p>\n

Www.onebillionrising.org<\/a><\/p>\n

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